So why do guys work to learn how to be a "pickup artist" and learn all these seduction techniques, when what they really want is just to get a girlfriend?I believe it's because men have a basic need, and it's illogical, but it is hard-wired in us. We want to have the thrill of the victory, overcoming the challenge, and then having our egos boosted with the validation of sexual POWER.
I've been involved as an author, editor, and contributor to over 15 programs on how to meet women, how to attract women, and how to live what I call the "Alpha Lifestyle." What is the Alpha Lifestyle?
That's the lifestyle of a man who gets the women he wants, the financial success he wants, and the social and sexual success he deserves.
In many ways, there's nothing more addictive to the male mind. And there's also nothing wrong with it, so don't feel guilty.
I was talking to a friend of mine, Jeff, at a cocktail party the other night, and he was discussing his experience of getting good with women, having a lot of women to date, and how he wasn't very happy "dating around." Yes, I know, sounds crazy, but it's true with almost every guy I meet.
And you will understand the secret methods of how to get a girl to like you - which is just starting her for you. It took me years to figure these out on my own, and really understand how they worked on a DEEP psychological level. I'd get fixated ("obsessed" is probably a better word) on her, and then I'd fall into the exact same pattern.