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But even while you’re congratulating yourself, you’re second-guessing yourself. It makes you feel scared and floppy within the world.
Or maybe you just feel that way because divorce is the scariest thing you’ve ever experienced in your life. So you keep on keeping on because it wouldn’t be fair to suck your ex back into the drama you’ve spent the past year working so hard to overcome. As I write this tonight at my house he’s 25 miles down the road at his place with the kids because it’s his night. Your Facebook name, profile photo and other personal information you make public on Facebook (e.g., school, work, current city, age) will appear with your comment.
You maintain positive communications, for the most part, and congratulate yourself on a divorce well done.
Between divorce and deciding to date, a highly important personal development needs to occur, what psychologists call "separation and individuation".
This maturational process resembles what children go through as they separate from their parents and take responsibility for their lives.
Prior to healthy separation, teenagers often blame their parents for their unhappiness, feel like victims and angrily cite their parents' shortcomings (e.g., "they're too self-centered" or "they don't understand me") as causes for the problems.