And given the choice between having just one boy with whom to spend all my time or a group of boys, friends trumped boyfriend.In college there were a handful of guys who probably could have been my first, but things never quite worked out.
“Those who oppose same-sex marriage are just producing more tongqi,” wrote one user in a comment that received more than 10,000 likes.
“I don’t admire homosexual behavior, but if same-sex marriage is forever prohibited, won’t the tragedy of gay wives be more and more common?
The Chat was never really an issue for me until three years ago.
I wasn’t like many teens, who consider sex a rite of passage.
It’s true I always had a crush on one (or two) boys and had my fair share of boyfriends, but no relationship ever got serious enough where sex was even a thought, let alone a deal breaker.